I know you have heard the popular "diet" advice...Everything in moderation. Well, DUH that would work if you had "self-control," right? What about the 80/20 rule...abstainers, roll your eyes with me! Why is it that those dishing out "diet" advice only cater to moderators? Which brings me to my point... Are you a moderator or an abstainer? One is NOT better than the other...they are just different. You'll be much happier with yourself if you figure out which one you are and